Scene 1 - Condom Enters
Lets face it, talking about condoms is awkward especially if it's your first time together. It takes away from the raw passion that has been building up with you...
So you're finally alone, your kissing, your playing, hands are exploring, clothes are coming off and your wondering "If I mention the word condom will it break the mood?"
"Will he think I want to skip foreplay and just F--k"
"Does he even have one?"
"Is he planning on getting it out soon?"
or should you just go and get the one in your bag.
Most people think the aim here is to just get that thing on as quickly as possible and just get on with it. That's fine I guess, but if you think that there may be a second encounter then you want to set the scene and expectations for times to come.
How the next few minutes play out will make the difference between awkward times to come and feeling connected, sexy and turned on without skipping a beat.
This article is dedicated to sharing some useful tips about the follow:
- Getting him excited about using condoms from the very first time you put one on him
- Why flavoured might be a good idea
- The truth about condom sizes
- Which lubricant to use.
Hint 1: find a way of either having a condom in your pocket once you have realized you may need one later or find a way of dragging your bag around with you until you have reached your final destination. This way you have the control even if he has his own stash.
Hint 2: Make sure you are the one putting it on him.
Ok so this is one option, I will share my Why later on.
Hint 3: Getting the Glove of Love On
The awkwardness surrounding condom use is usually at it's peak the first and second time you are with a new partner.
see if there is anything else they need to know about Condom style
useful and is dedicated to the in between helpful hints that I'd love to share with you.
That awkward moment when you wonder whether he has a condom or when you to
based on conversations people often dont use it a second time
use your mouth to get the glove of love on
the next he now knows that
knows he will get a head job out of it
gives you an opportunity to add some lubricant onto him and you can sneak some onto yourself
This blog post was inspired by the Gangnam Condom youtube clip. Check it out bellow
The internet has an amazing array of sites and articles dedicated to the proper use of condoms. I have included a clip bellow for those who would like check in and revise their condom style. ( I picked this clip cause he sounds so cute).