Introducing

Fai

  • Sex Therapist
  • Counsellor
  • Presenter




Q & A
See Bellow:
Fai, what do you do
and who comes in
to see you?


Sex Therapist Fai: The Heart of Sexual Focus
MHSc (Sexual Health) BA (Psych)


The passion and heart of Sexual Focus is Faina Kur, one of WA's leading sex therapists. Fai has a BA in Psychology and her Masters in Health Science from Sydney University, specializing in Sexual Health. Fai’s approach is very broad from counselling couples on intimacy to seminars and workshops on sexual health sexual techniques and dealing with physical or psychological issues.

Fai has worked for over four years with one of Australia’s most popular adult shops, as well as writing for many national and international publications. Not surprisingly, Fai is the chosen ‘Sexpert’ or sex therapist for Sexpo Australia wide, a four-day public event that explores all aspects of health, sexuality and adult lifestyles.

Fai’s Techniques
Fai uses a combination of techniques assist clients in working through issues on a more holistic level, based on her extensive knowledge and experience:

      Performance Coach
      Time Line Practitioner
      Practitioner of Hypnotherapy
      Trainer of Coaching: Training and Speaking Skills
      Practitioner of Neuro-Linguistic programming
      Master Practitioner of Neuro-Linguistic Programming

A Passion for Teaching
In addition to her clinical practice, Fai is an entertaining teacher, infusing her presentations with enthusiasm; energy and passion, ensuring guests leave with excitement to try the new sensual techniques they have learned. Women and men aged from 18 to 85 have found a renewed and revitalized love life through Fai’s assistance. Fai works alongside other trained professionals at many events, with expertise in sexual health and intimate products to offer a comprehensive and informative experience to all.
                      
A Philosophy of Passion
Fai has a philosophy of passion, guiding people to discover true pleasure and passion in their intimate experiences. She deeply believes that the sexual self is a positive, natural and important part of who we are and erotic exploration is one of the keys to living a more satisfying and joyful life.

            "I love my clients. I don’t feel like it has been a successful day unless I have changed someone’s life for the better." Fai Kur

Fai, what do you do
  and who comes in to see you?

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I work as a Sex Therapist (translation = we talk about sex in a therapeutic environment) and I love, love, love my work passionately. I meet the most amazing people who allow me into their private lives. The journey into my office for some people is smooth sailing. Some people know sex therapists exit, they make the appointment and in they come.

For some the journey has been long and arduous. They question whether helping themselves will really make anything better. They have to give themselves permission to open up, to discuss, reveal and explore their most private secretes.

They talk about their libido (men and women), pain during sex, their erections, their ejaculations, they question whether they have ever had an orgasm, they discuss their performance anxiety, ability to feel like a man post radical prostatectomy, their fear of touching their wife now that she has lost her breasts and is undergoing chemotherapy, she may be angry because nobody told her that her vaginal wall could become so thin, inflamed and so dry. The question is why not?

Sex can be an amazing part of our lives, however we are afraid to talk about it, to reveal our private selves, to be judged. We can be light hearted about sex, we can explore and love the journey. However, when an element of our sexual scripts, or our experiences don’t go according to plan, our self-esteem can plummet, relationships can break up, families can fall apart. It really is time that we as a society gave the subject and our fellow, friends, family and community members the respect that they deserve.






Most of us lead very full and sometimes exhausting lives. We journey through our lives focusing on the various facets that sustain us. We may find ourselves focusing on work, our finances, children, stress, exercise, nutrition, finding a partner, keeping our partner and for many of us it is a balancing act.

Unfortunately, our sexual health, our sexual well being and relationships, are most often excluded from being highlighted as a core human need.

Sexual focus provides a safe space for you to talk, cry, laugh and share your concerns freely and without judgment.

Some people:
  • Don't have anyone they can talk to about their sexual selves
  • Feel embarrassed to raise their issue
  • Feel that sex should be natural and that they are the only ones who are experiencing problems
  • That no one can help them
  • Have been to couples counselling however they did not feel that they could discuss sex with them.
  • Have had a negative experience when raising their sexual health concerns with someone in the past.

I believe that sexual well being is a core human, choosing to take action now can save your from experiencing months and years of distress.



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